tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post3462785371231711075..comments2023-10-31T06:46:29.369-07:00Comments on myletterstoemily: to spank or not to spankmyletterstoemilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17555607498974287844noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-66042865367000328602010-06-13T03:23:50.501-07:002010-06-13T03:23:50.501-07:00Great intiative Lea. We should really be opened to...Great intiative Lea. We should really be opened to this issue part of parenting.<br /><br />As Zach and Kate said, "thanks for getting the wheels churning".<br /><br />I myself have a funny incident with my children about this topic.<br /><br />Not only the Book of Hebrews said about discipline, the Books of Proverbs got a lot to say about it too!<br /><br />Glad to know you, dear Mother in the blogland. :)Indayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03591131757572208375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-87587102893561679522010-02-04T12:43:19.669-08:002010-02-04T12:43:19.669-08:00your post inspired me to write about spanking on m...your post inspired me to write about spanking on my blog...thanks for getting the wheels churning...love your blog :-)Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04656208331712589402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-52482180914276570642010-02-03T21:29:51.391-08:002010-02-03T21:29:51.391-08:00yes, I'll have to weigh in--we choose to follo...yes, I'll have to weigh in--we choose to follow the same spanking guidelines and I've found it to be helpful. And I've found that I do so very rarely these days--what a blessing! And yay that my kids might be getting safer. :) love, emilymerrybabiesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-43947903421910314252010-02-01T10:20:14.993-08:002010-02-01T10:20:14.993-08:00you know if children receive spankings when they a...you know if children receive spankings when they are young...you usually don't have to spank when they are older...my kids are 21 and 26 and didn't have to have a lot of spankings..they knew what we wanted from them...and what was expected of them...there is a big difference in spanking and beating...and there is a big difference in spanking with love than spanking with anger....great post...Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11745604261113221887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-28194720830873761612010-02-01T07:38:50.928-08:002010-02-01T07:38:50.928-08:00hey aubrey!
that's how isaac was, completely ...hey aubrey!<br /><br />that's how isaac was, completely corrected by a stern word.<br /><br />hans keeps telling me i need to be more specific about all<br />this. pretty sweet how much he enjoys the blog.<br /><br />hugs and kisses to the girls!myletterstoemilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17555607498974287844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-61065794438021292332010-02-01T02:48:23.057-08:002010-02-01T02:48:23.057-08:00How I love this "bold" post and all its ...How I love this "bold" post and all its comments! I have never needed to spank Ella (knock on a wooden spoon!). A stern word is all it takes to correct her behavior right now. But my parents spanked my sister and me when it was called for. Like Shelbs, I think I would have been a hell raiser otherwise! :)Aubreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10524425534807432117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-64313379810072654472010-01-30T18:18:42.574-08:002010-01-30T18:18:42.574-08:00Oh yes, I'm agreeing with Cinnamon above...OR ...Oh yes, I'm agreeing with Cinnamon above...OR the poor mother is so frazzled that she's a screamer. Time out is needed for all concerned. <br /><br />I also laughed to read about not paddling with the hand, but with a light weight wooden spoon. One summer, I was digging my overgrown lilac bushes up and discovered the wooden spoon graveyard. And I wondered what in the world was happening to those spoons. Ha!Veehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00618654361869856894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-50089790373417601482010-01-28T22:02:06.116-08:002010-01-28T22:02:06.116-08:00What a bold post in light of so many women who wan...What a bold post in light of so many women who want to be politically correct and not "damage" their children by spanking them. Those are the women that you see in the store with screaming children, that are demanding their toy! Don't you just walk by and think "somebody please spank them"..... live and learn :-)<br /><br />Enjoying browsing your blog~ CinnamonCinnamonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17641108808868060406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-70059258888190410752010-01-28T15:13:45.775-08:002010-01-28T15:13:45.775-08:00many moms have commented to my face or my email. ...many moms have commented to my face or my email. here are some of their thoughts...<br /><br />it is important to not think about breaking their will or spirit but giving a swift, expected consequence.<br /><br />be very careful to never spank with your hands but with a light weight<br />wooden spoon or switch that can only sting never harm.<br /><br />take the child into your arms or lap and tell them that they are forgiven<br />and do NOT bring it up again. it is over!myletterstoemilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17555607498974287844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-4832873864575222482010-01-28T14:18:51.347-08:002010-01-28T14:18:51.347-08:00I definitely believe in spanking! It is a quick, e...I definitely believe in spanking! It is a quick, easy way to discipline. The parents set the boundaries and if the child chooses to step over, they bear the consequences. Of course it must always be on the basis of love and not out of control.Denise Kigganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09052704511710456758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-59202186395681609742010-01-26T18:26:53.752-08:002010-01-26T18:26:53.752-08:00uh, uh...not my sweet baby girl!uh, uh...not my sweet baby girl!myletterstoemilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17555607498974287844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-57693331769193166932010-01-26T17:21:32.959-08:002010-01-26T17:21:32.959-08:00I think spanking saved my life. Seriously. I would...I think spanking saved my life. Seriously. I would have been a hell raiser :0)Shelby Ricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07052165137634778256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-31277909285305037412010-01-26T16:47:54.067-08:002010-01-26T16:47:54.067-08:00I believe every child is so different. I raised 5 ...I believe every child is so different. I raised 5 without to much trauma. You have to discipline according to each need. Some need spankings some not much if any. Being sensitive to each childs needs and spirits and loving them with all that you have will help determine the discipline.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-76174100785550106712010-01-26T14:40:57.368-08:002010-01-26T14:40:57.368-08:00I have four (2 in college; 2 in grade school). We ...I have four (2 in college; 2 in grade school). We have never hesitated to spank along the guidelines you've presented here; in doing so, we've never had to do it much. <br /><br />All have survived. Great topic for today's generation of young mothers. I think you've provided some great tips here.<br /><br />I don't buy into parenting books, except for one that has guided me over the years.<br /><br />"Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours" by Kevin Leman. Fabulous read based on "reality discipline." I found his thoughts to very instrumental to me as a young mother without much confidence in my ability to "shape" my children.<br /><br />For what it's worth...<br /><br />peace~elaineelaine @ peace for the journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09675745465728814736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-24013835156452777302010-01-26T12:16:59.323-08:002010-01-26T12:16:59.323-08:00dear garden, i really don't know what i am do...dear garden, i really don't know what i am doing half the time. i filled<br />out something at 'little red house' that i guess i shouldn't have. welcome<br />to my world! sorry you were led to believe i would have some wonderful<br />mosaic here. nope!myletterstoemilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17555607498974287844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-6447493673838782872010-01-26T11:54:26.293-08:002010-01-26T11:54:26.293-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.myletterstoemilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17555607498974287844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-16190495887976553502010-01-26T11:02:16.086-08:002010-01-26T11:02:16.086-08:00I can see that this could turn into a really inter...I can see that this could turn into a really interesting conversation... but why did you link to LIttle Red House's Mosaic MOnday with it? I don't see any pictures. Did something get deleted by accident?GardenOfDaisieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03110646840082802721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5110877309836625274.post-6561721473050429232010-01-26T08:32:08.145-08:002010-01-26T08:32:08.145-08:00now that i added the above post, this works. this...now that i added the above post, this works. this blog is reminding me a<br />big of my CHILDREN!myletterstoemilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17555607498974287844noreply@blogger.com